Get Clarity for Your Christian Calling
Discover Where You Are and Where You're Going
(Especially at Age 50+)
"As a life coach, R.J. exemplifies the same high level of spiritual maturity, quick mind, and commitment to excellence that she displayed on Crossroads Church's staff. She is passionate about helping people find and follow their calling. When I was processing significant questions about my next season in ministry, I turned to R.J. and I’m so glad I did. The Lord used her coaching to bring me much-needed perspective on where I was and greater clarity on where I’m going. I’m delighted to recommend R.J. to you."
Dr. Steve Cordle
Founder and Executive Director
The River Network International
Founding Pastor
Crossroads Church
"R.J. helped me explore God’s purpose for transitioning into retirement. I discovered that all of my life experiences—positive and negative—had value and shaped me into who I am today. God’s plans are even greater than I imagined. I now enjoy an exciting and fulfilled retirement lifestyle. R.J., you are a blessing! Through coaching, God changed my life forever!"
Paula
Retired Leader
Federal Government Agency
"I needed to make some long-term decisions about my life and ministry. What I appreciated the most was that R.J. didn’t tell me what I needed to do; instead, she guided me with insightful questions that led me to understand how my past, gifting, interests, and experiences connect with God’s plan for my life. I highly recommend R.J. for coaching."
James Roberts
Senior Pastor
Church at the Crossing
Do you long to find and fulfill your Christian Calling?
Regardless of your age or life circumstances, God has a unique calling for you. In fact, the most fruitful time of Christian calling often happens in middle and senior adulthood!
Does one of the following statements describe you?
Are you in a Christian Calling Valley?
Research shows that Christians experience three predictable mountaintops and three predictable valleys during a lifetime of living their Christian Calling. (The Calling Journey by Tony Stoltzfus)
During the mountaintops of your calling, God opens doors for impact and builds your skills and experiences. Life calling feels good, productive, and exciting.
During the valleys of your calling, everything grinds to an agonizing halt as God develops your character and identity. Life feels hard, stuck, and messy.
EVERY Christ follower experiences calling valleys! You don’t hear much about them because nobody wants to talk about them! But they propel us into maximum personal joy and Kingdom impact.
I have been where you are.
In my Christian calling, I have had wonderful mountaintop times of progress and impact. But like you, I also experienced faith-wrenching valleys when I feared that my life-long dream to impact the world for Christ in specific ways was just a self-centered pipe dream.
At various times, I have been a college chemistry professor, a pastor, and now a Certified Professional Life Coach. But those roles are only half the story of my Christian calling. Those were the doing parts of my calling. There’s a whole other being part of my calling that God continually grows inside me.
Your doing-calling comes from your uniquely created being-calling.
You are always YOU. But the doing part of your Christian calling can change many times throughout life, depending on life circumstances and personal growth.
So you never have to worry that you might miss your calling because you can impact the world through who you are in many ways.
"After suffering ischemic strokes in 2009 and 2013, my life was drastically changed. As a speaker, advisor, and leader of men, I lost my confidence. R.J. listened and offered information to help my understanding. After working with R.J., I have clarity and confidence. I would recommend R.J. for anyone who wants to move forward."
Dr. Nate Brooks
Nate Brooks Consultant
Nate Brooks, Inc.
"I thought I came to R.J. to help me find my calling. Little did I know how she would help me heal from trauma and move out of a deep valley. Her insightfulness and encouragement helped me find a peace I’ve never known and move joyfully forward. All this while also finding my calling! Thank you, R.J."
Linda Lewis
Retired Personal Assistant
Energy Industry
1. Rekindle Hope for Your Calling
2. Become Who God Created You to Be
3. Do what God Created You to Do
“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” -Joshua 1:9
"Coaching with R.J. is an empowering journey. R.J. asks insightful questions that unlock ideas and concepts I would not have thought of on my own. I always walk away with something … an action step or a thought to process. With R.J., I start with questions and end with strategy. I highly recommend working with R.J."
Christy Gibas
Lead Pastor
Crossroads Church
"I never thought I needed a life coach, but after 34 years in technology, I was confused enough to try. What a great experience! I identified the mountaintops and valleys of my calling; leaned into my strengths, weaknesses, successes, and failures; and became an encourager to kingdom-building entrepreneurs and other leaders."
Pat Roddy
Retired Software Exec & Church Op Dir. Currently supporting pastors through leadership challenges.
Affordable Pricing
$195 for three 50-minute coaching sessions per month (or $65 per session). No long-term contract.
Coaching fees are about 50% of the current market rate. Ministry is joyfully done for the glory of God.
"R.J. helped me refine and understand why I was feeling a lull in my current business and which direction to take in my career/business shift. She helped me clarify why I was doing what I was doing and shift to where I wanted to go."
Jonathan White
Entrepreneur
Accelerate Living Podcast
"A divorce and setbacks in my business left me rudderless, so I contacted R.J. The transformation in my thought processes enabled me to not simply start over, but begin again! It’s wonderful to have passion restored and spiritual focus and balance defined."
Jacki Lynn Baynks
Certified Color Consultant
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"I enjoy coaching with R.J. As a working mom of six, taking time to reflect on life is difficult. Through coaching, I see how God is working in my life. R.J. helps me learn to trust God’s timing—my faith continues to grow. I am so thankful for her encouragement and guidance. She helps me keep life in perspective."
Liz Lee
Business Consultant
Mother of Six
"R.J. was instrumental in helping me gain new insights into my calling journey as a leader. This clarity has helped me grow in my faith during what author Tony Stolzfus calls the Valley of Identity. If you’re wondering where God is leading and desiring to move forward with purpose and intention, I highly recommend R.J.!"
Julie Smith
Leadership and Health Coach
Julie Smith Coaching